just do it


so, i found another one.  i know, i know, will she ever stop trying to self-assess and to get others to do the same?

answer = no.  

play along.  you know you want to.  

i was at a business lunch yesterday and happened upon the topic of personality tests.  clearly, my ears perked up and i immediately returned to my office with a fire under my ass to find a DISC-type personality test.

while i didn't find a perfect example which could be taken for free, i did find one which is different from previously provided assessments.  


DO IT.  and i'm not kidding.  you had better comment and/or email me your results.  i want to figure your shit out.

my results (with my comments in pink)

Dazzling Diplomat
Amy, as the "Dazzling Diplomat" (i've been called "sparkly" before...never dazzling), people are often impressed by your charisma, warm, empathetic nature, and loyalty (i hope so!). Being both sensitive and analytical (i don't know about analytical...), you like to gather information before making decisions and have high standards for yourself and perhaps others (yes, i have high expectations...and can be impatient). You show casual poise in social situations and are perceived as patient and a good listener. You are also an adept social navigator(i like to think so...). Where often others will sit by, you will engage new people or invite others in to make them feel at home. There is an essence about you that puts others at ease (a goal of mine, hope i'm successful), allowing them to open up to you and even look to you for guidance. You especially thrive in personal, low-pressure situations where you can feel truly connected to and acknowledged by those around you.

You are neighborly, open-minded and able to see the 'best' in others. Once you form a bond with another person, you have no problem talking about personal subjects (sometimes to the dismay of others...)and extending trust, proving yourself to be a solid friend to many. At work, you are most content when utilizing your interpersonal skills, creativity, and optimism in a supportive context (and when able to blog about embarassing experiences). Your enthusiasm can motivate others, bringing life to a project. Using your positive people skills, you can bring unity to groups and between individuals. You may find yourself in the role of counselor or peacemaker.

You tend to be tactful and diplomatic in dealing with confrontation, and have the ability to function as an assertive leader if your parameters are clearly defined. Under such a scenario, you can make sound decisions yet be sensitive to the emotions, responses, and attitudes of others (i try, sometimes fail). Seen as steadfast, trustworthy, and relationship-oriented, people are drawn to your energetic optimism and enthusiasm. You can be a very positive and encouraging force in others' lives, with the ability to focus on the bright side rather than the obstacles in the way (is this test trying to butter-me-up?)


Food for Thought

  • You desire approval from others and can be swayed by their opinions at times. You may find that you will adapt yourself to be accepted (yes, i am an acceptance pu$$y)

  • You are a very trusting person, wanting to see the good in others and for them to see the same in you. As a result, you may extend yourself generously, sometimes opening yourself up to be taken advantage of (it's generally worth it).

  • Because of your desire to be around people, you'll probably spend your time on relationships as opposed to tasks. Challenges may arise for you in time-management and with detailed tasks that involve a long commitment of time or repetitive activity (i have a short attention-span for tasks...working on it).

  • You likely show love through physical affection (i am a hug slut), time spent, verbalization, and kind acts. You probably want to be shown love in the same way (please, hug me). You may feel frustrated or rejected around less emotionally motivated and expressive personalities, as they may show and receive love through tasks and concrete gestures.

  • Your communication style in general, especially in times of pressure or conflict, can be overly tolerant. Your need to maintain positive relationships, may lead you to undervalue your own needs, time, and personal goals. This can create additional stress in your life (i get overwhelmed).

  • You likely fear and avoid conflict (yes), which may prevent you from setting appropriate boundaries and expressing your own needs and wants. If you don't express your own needs, you may feel resentment. At times, you may need to make a concerted effort to stand your ground.
so...do you think it pegged me?  did it peg you?  comment, dammit.  i'll love it :)

2 comments:

  1. Anonymous8/18/2011

    This appears to be mostly true about you.

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